A little About me

Hi, I’m Nicole. 30 years old, married, a dog mom, and most likely having a quarter-life crisis. I’m figuring it all out as I go, just like everyone else (or at least pretending to).

Why I Started This Blog.

Yeah, I know, everyone and their dog starts a blog these days. Lame, I know. But here’s the thing. I wanted to do it anyway. I wanted a space that’s real, raw, and authentically me. No bullshit, no romanticizing life. I’ll talk about what’s going on in my life, the highs, the lows, and everything in between and I hope it resonates with you.

My goal is to create a safe, relatable space, which feels rare these days with all the curated perfection online. So, if you’re looking for honesty, humor, and a place to feel seen, stick around.

Do I know what I’m doing? Absolutely not. Do I even know how to blog? Also no. But life’s a journey, and we’re just figuring it out together. So, let’s get it! xox

years of figuring it out (again and again)
tears shed, and counting
dog walks that saved my sanity
drinks, because balance right?

Get to know me


On weekends you’ll find me

Binging The Real Housewives (all of them, i’m obsessed)

Couldn’t live without

Honestly? My husband and my dog. Sappy, I know.

MORNING PERSON OR NIGHT OWL

Depends which version of Nicole shows up that day. I truly think I have a split personality.

MOST USED PHRASE

F.I.B.I — “Fuk It, Book It.” Because life’s too short.

sELF CARE LOOKS LIKE

A hot bubble bath, cozy pajamas, and the couch.

MOST TOXIC TRAIT

None. I’m perfect, duh.

gUILTY PLEASURE

Reality TV and late night online shopping I’ll regret by morning.

fAVORITE QUOTE

“What you’re not changing, you’re choosing.”

FAQ

Literally an hour, and really hoping for the best.

A mix of burnout, bubble baths, being completely over society’s norms, and realizing that happiness doesn’t have to look perfect. Oh, and an actual menty b.

I don’t. At all. Just taking it day by day and doing my best not to spiral.

I hope one day. Let’s all manifest it together.

Somewhere between “let’s conquer the world” and “I need a nap.”